I was surprised who was appearing on the FOX 4 Good Day TV Show last week prior to me. Do you remember Rob Schneider from Saturday Night Live? He did the skit where he said, "Steve-O, makin' some copies" and he's been in a lot of funny movies.
He's really not as short as he looks in this picture - my son Alex is really tall!
FOX 4 asked me to do a segment on "How to Put the Attitude of Gratitude into Action at Work and Home." (Click here to watch the segment). While we were setting up the props we ran into Rob Schneider. One way to express gratitude is to smile and make someone laugh - which is what Rob is good at!
Thank you Rob for making me laugh!
January is National Thank You Month. Gratitude, or saying "Thank You," has been called one of the 3 most important virtues along with compassion and forgiveness. People in the Smart Zone know how to show gratitude.
Here are Smart Moves for how to say thank you to the people you see every day:
Boss: Bosses, like teachers, often hear more complaints than compliments. When your boss does something well, pay her a sincere compliment like, "You did a nice job running the staff meeting this morning. I appreciated your support." Better yet, thank your boss for a job well done in front of others. This is a really nice confidence booster and won't be forgotten.
Waiter: Get the waiter off topic during your initial conversation. It can be so repetitious being a waiter so make his/her day more fun by being more conversational, which doesn't always mean more personal. Also, let the waiter know if you want separate checks first thing and leave when you are through eating so your waiter's table can open up for another tipping customer. And of course, TIP.
Mailman: Wave and talk to the mail man when you have a chance and, better yet, keep the area in front of your mailbox clear of cars, snow and trash cans.
Pets: My dog Sophie loves treats and walking around the neighborhood. If you have a dog-friendly pet you can even visit some of the dog parks for a play date. If you are taking care of someone's dog, write a letter from the dog for the owners to receive when they get back from vacation. It is a nice way to set someone at ease who leaves their prized possession in your care. It is also a nice way to say "thank you for trusting me."
What can you notice about people you see each day? Be creative in who and how you thank people. Get to know people well enough to know what they like - you don't have to be nosy or spend a lot of money. My favorite way to be thanked is with a Diet Coke from Sonic!
Stay in the Smart Zone by thanking someone this month!